If it's not your life....

Then don't try to run it. You don't know me as well as you think you do. And you definitely don't know my husband. You aren't married to him, you don't know him, the way he thinks, the things he says, or what he does. It's not your job to run our lives. So leave it be. We are married adults, we've been doing this for quite some time now. We're not pros at it, but we do a damn good job with everything we've got. We're in this for the long haul and we don't need you trying to tell us what we should and should not do. Let us be. And if you don't agree with something we decide, get over it. Stop getting all butt hurt over something that shouldn't even matter to you. We aren't going to do something based on what you think, because it doesn't matter to us. Whatever we decide, will be between the two of us, with careful thought and consideration to what matters most to OUR family.